Part Two · The Long Way Back — Chapter 10
Gold Coast
Gold Coast Basketball taught me something else about returning to work.
Sometimes honesty comes with a price, even when you cannot prove what that price was.
I progressed well through their recruitment process for the General Manager position. The first conversation was described as an initial screening interview, an opportunity for both sides to assess fit.
I came away from it excited, followed up afterwards and was invited to a second interview.
After that interview, Gold Coast President Rebecca Morris contacted me and asked for professional references. Ideally, they wanted a Board member and another person in authority from my most recent organisation.
And there it was.
Bulleen.
I could have danced around what had happened. I could have supplied referees from elsewhere in basketball and hoped nobody asked too many questions. I did not.
After everything I had been through, I was not going to rebuild my career by pretending the injury had never happened.
I explained that I had suffered a workplace injury arising from an occupational health and safety matter at my most recent employer and that, because of those circumstances, I could not provide the type of referee they were requesting from Bulleen.
I gave them the details of my vocational adviser, Kate Southall, who could speak to my recovery and readiness to return to work. I provided alternative senior basketball referees and supplied Bulleen financial material because whatever had happened at the end of my employment, the work I had done there still existed.
I later provided Mason Rogers, Bulleen’s former Big V Women’s Head Coach, as another referee who had worked extensively with me and could speak directly about what I had done inside the organisation.
Six days later Gold Coast advised that it would re-advertise the position and would not progress my application.
I was disappointed enough to write back asking for personal feedback because I genuinely believed the role and my experience had been a strong fit.
I cannot say that disclosing my workplace injury cost me the Gold Coast job. They never said that, and it would be wrong to present an assumption as fact.
But I know the sequence.
Before the disclosure, I had moved from the first interview to the second interview and then to the reference stage.
Then I told them everything.
Then my candidacy ended.
Maybe those things were connected. Maybe they were not.
What mattered more was the decision I had made.
I had chosen honesty.
For someone trying desperately to get his career back, that was not necessarily the easiest choice.
But if I wanted transparency, accountability and uncomfortable truths from the people I might one day lead, I had to be prepared to live by those standards myself.
Gold Coast became another rejection, but not another defeat. In a strange way, it became evidence that the person emerging from the previous two years was beginning to know exactly what he stood for.